Grief is the natural response to any loss. The passing of a loved one is the most apparent cause of grief, and it is a natural part of life. We will all experience and feel bereavement and grief at some point – and loss is not limited to the passing of someone we care about. We can experience grief from many things, such as divorce, losing a job, the loss of a pet, unexpected traumatic situations, or a loss of a friendship.
These are the Five Stages of Grief that you may experience in no particular order.
- Denial
- Anger
- Bargaining
- Depression
- Acceptance
Grief is a process unique to every individual. There’s no specific period for how long grief should or shouldn’t last. Additional support may be necessary if a person’s grieving period is prolonged or severe.
If you feel you are not progressing through your grief or are not coping, there is nothing wrong with you. Nor is it a case of ‘you need to pull yourself together and move on.’ You may need assistance from a mental health professional specialising in grief and bereavement to talk to and seek peace and acceptance of your loss. The grieving process can take some time, but you can find internal healing and achieve positive outcomes with new perspectives.
Grief can affect individuals in many ways:
- Varied levels of sorrow.
- Feeling sad or depressed.
- Feeling unable to move on with living without the person you lost.
- A significant impact on your work and social life.
- Using alcohol or drugs to manage your grief.